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What Causes Inability To Reach Orgasm?
hi ,, im 18,, and im having my firs sex experiance, and ive had sex with my firs boyfriend for several times,, like 6 to 8 times, and ive had never cum! we have had sex for an hour and still i couldnt cum! and he gave me finger jub for like 15 mins! still not helping!! but I feel way too sensitive when he finger f**ks me but as in normal sex i can only feel pain! ive had masterbaited few times, some say that its cuz uve had masterbaited! what am suppose to do???
Thu, 17 Jul 2014
Hi, thanks for query. There are roughly 4 phases of human sexual response cycle; excitement-plateau-orgasm-resolution. For achieving effective sexual pleasure; one needs to have successful physical & mental preparation which shall occur only after excitement & plateau phases. For a good sexual excitement, one needs to feel intimate, safe, secure with ones partner & excitement can NOT occur ONLY by practicing techniques like fingering ( & few others shown in pornographic movies, advocated in pornographic books). Hence its my sincere advice to try & strike a secure mental bond of love & affection with your bed partner first after which you shall surely achieve sexual orgasm. lastly try to practice a safe & protected sex always! Good luck
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