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my boyfriend and i tried to, well, youknow, for the first time together today. and he realized that his body had done its business, but he hadnot felt a thing. how are we to fix this? is it going to be like this from now on? every time? cus he never experienced it before.
I had gone through your query and would like to suggest here that feelings in sex are natural things. but it depends on the situation.
It depends on what your mind is thinking about while having sex. If your mind is thinking in some other things than definitely you will not having that pleasure while having sex.
Other way to have more pleasure is to having oral sex and also have foreplay before intercourse it should increase the level of pleasure.
It also increase the level of your feelings that how you feel about it.
So you may have to try that but still any query there than you should go for a good doctor they would suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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What Causes Lack Of Feelings During Sex?
Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, I had gone through your query and would like to suggest here that feelings in sex are natural things. but it depends on the situation. It depends on what your mind is thinking about while having sex. If your mind is thinking in some other things than definitely you will not having that pleasure while having sex. Other way to have more pleasure is to having oral sex and also have foreplay before intercourse it should increase the level of pleasure. It also increase the level of your feelings that how you feel about it. So you may have to try that but still any query there than you should go for a good doctor they would suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati