Hello, You are suffering from lack of orgasm during sexual orgasm. It commonly occurs due to partner s sexual dysfunction, such a male partner with premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. Get your partner examined by a urologist and treated if required. It can also be due to hormonal imbalance in the female, thyroid dysfunction, taking CP may also interfere, PID, dry vagina, etc. Get examined by a gynecologist and get treated. Other conditions that can cause similar symptoms are lack of emotional intimacy, lack of open communication with the partner, lack of knowledge about sexual stimulation or interactions, stresses like financial issues, death of a loved one. Lack of orgasm can also be related to stress and anxiety, 50% of women orgasm by fingering. Make sure you are sufficiently aroused/stimulated , adequately wet during sex. . Stop being uncomfortable or self-conscious about your body/appearance. Sometimes, taking CP may interfere. Women who prefer vaginal-penile intercourse to orgasm prefer to go with a good penile size with good girth. This in turn, creates a sense of anxiety in men. Commonly clitoral stimulation, stimulation in the front anterior wall of the vagina (G-spot), the back wall of the vagina and the cervix brings women to orgasm Both the partners should stay away from addictions if any. Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Nupur K., General & Family Physician