Hi I understand the situation and psychological stress you are facing but I don t think such trivial matter deserve a serious outcome like divorce . First of all, you must have a faith in your mind that you are not impotent and can satisfy your wife easily if you wish strongly. By the act of excessive masturbation you have made your body addicted to an artificial condition of sex usually referred as pseudo-sexual behavior which is far different from the natural condition you face during real sexual act. In masturbation you have to satisfy just yourself but during sex, satisfaction of both the partners is important. Now the first and foremost responsibility of yours is to take your body out of the addiction of masturbation and gradually put it into the habit of real sexual environment. It would be the best decision to talk to your partner about it and convince her to help you in overcoming the situation. You please remember that you have to control yourself very strictly because satisfying your partner s sexual need is your primary duty. In my clinical practice, a patient with such presentations is often benefited by the followings - * do MEDITATION regularly especially in the early morning hours ( 5 - 7 a.m.). * Start getting involved in natural sex with your wife and not in masturbation. You will gradually find it very beautiful. * Take healthy food and say NO to junk / canned food. * following medicines may prove helpful - - Sarswatarishta - Ashwagandharishta - jatamansi - Dhwajamangal vati Meeting with a qualified Ayurveda physician before taking any medicine is highly recommended. Hope this answer will make your life beautiful. Warm regards..... Dr. Ranjeet Sharma