Hello I read your statement and i understand your concern Lack of Libido among partners may be caused by various causes ranging for physical to psychological Since you both have decreased desires for each other, it seems to be more psychological than physical cause. However i would go through the physical causes too Low Sex hormone level can be an important cause. Get tested for testesterone and LH FHS levels for your and husband If you both are taking too much alcohol, try to reduce as it can decrease your libido Certain medication cause decreased desires. Let me know which medication you are taking and are they having side effects including decreased libido Psychological reasons for decreased libido are stress, anxiety and depression. Your statement is deficient is a way that it does not gives a clue about anxiety and depression. If you are having some negative thoughts and felling anxious, then your sexual life can be resumed only if you start treatment for anxiety and depression If i were your doctor, i would have ruled out physical causes first, then evaluated you for depression and anxiety. Then prescribed you Tab Alprazolam 0.25mg for both partners once a night for 8 days and also Tab Acralion 200mg 2 tablets once a day for a month Thanks Dr Nasir Ali