Hello, and I hope I can help you today.
It certainly is possible given the fact that you had some burning even before sex and did potentially cause a lot of irritation that the way you are feeling is simply due to the fact that you haven't had sex in a very long time and even with the lubricant you used you may have traumatized your vaginal and vulvar area.
Unfortunately, there is a possibility that your symptoms are due to infection with
genital herpes. Even though your partner may have had STD testing previously, many doctors do not test for herpes as the test has a high cost. In addition, the type of herpes that causes cold stores can be transmitted to women during
oral sex.
Genital herpes generally presents between 3 to 10 days after an act of
unprotected intercourse. It can be transmitted through breaks in the skin such as chafing from sex or shaving. New herpes infections typically also cause symptoms like the flu, such as
sore throat and
backache, and also may cause burning with urination due to inflammation of the nerves near the opening of the bladder. You can develop lesions in areas where you have not had sexual contact, such as around the Ennis or even on your back or buttocks.
I suggest that until you actually see your doctor you do not apply anything else to the area, including
hydrocortisone cream as cortisone actually inhibits healing of viral infections. If the sores hurt, you can apply oil based lubricants (preferably something medically sterile like Vaseline) to waterproof them for when you urinate. Please avoid anything else that has a fragrance (including Summer's Eve) to clean the area... Perfume and dye free gentle soap like Dove is a good choice… until you see your physician for an appointment.
There is a
blood test available that can distinguish whether or not you have an active herpes infection and whether it is new or old. Your doctor may be able to send you for that blood test which will give you more information.
Either way at this time, it is best to leave the area alone is much as possible and refrain from further sexual activity until you been seen by your physician.
I hope that I was able to answer your question adequately today, and that this information was helpful.
Best wishes,
Dr. Brown