I have had pain behind my ear lobe going down to my neck, a sore throat and teeth pain on top and bottom all on the same side. The doctor said it was fine and to go to dentist. He pulled a back molar and said that could be the problem. Now I woke up with my ear, same side, congested. I have used Claritin, Zyrtec , a Nettie pot and steamed my head. I have anxiety so I don't like Sudafed. What can I do?