Hello, I havent had this problem forever so i know its not "normal"

Everytime i go to have sex with my fiance he trys to eat me out.. only my clit has pain in it 24/7 and it is not enjoyable to be touched.. then when we actually start p/v intercourse it burns a little and certain spots make me feel like i need to urinate but i know its not because i am about to get off.. it is very painful to the point where i have to quit all together.. when i go in for my reg pap smears the dpctpr thinks everythings normal.. what could this be? how can i figure it out? anyone?