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What Causes Physical Harassment Behavior In A Person?

Hi Doctor

I am married for a year now. My husband loved a girl in his office and was living life with her for 5 years before getting married. After getting married to me too, he is continuing the relationship and telling me he is just a friend to her now. But he doesnt treat me as wife. He doesnt hav sex with me, scolds me for sitting and eating in his money. I dont work as i did not get work visa, so am dependent on him now. I have seen him doing self pleasing sexual act with his hands. He beat me two days back and sent me out of the house. Now temporarily am at shelter of a public organisation.

pls. advice if he is physicically affected plus having sexual disorder too.

Thanks



Mon, 22 Sep 2014
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Dear
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. some people do have some sexual fantasies and may be your husband is one among them. I do not know your period of married relationship. But even after marriage, if he is not interested in sex with you, and is more interested in masturbation, there could be some sexual misunderstanding. My advise is first, you should to talk to that woman about his sexual habits. don't shy. Then you may see a sexologist for further advise.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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What Causes Physical Harassment Behavior In A Person?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. some people do have some sexual fantasies and may be your husband is one among them. I do not know your period of married relationship. But even after marriage, if he is not interested in sex with you, and is more interested in masturbation, there could be some sexual misunderstanding. My advise is first, you should to talk to that woman about his sexual habits. don t shy. Then you may see a sexologist for further advise. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.