Hi Patric, I can understand your distress regarding your symptoms. You seem to be suffering from premature ejaculation. It is a condition when a male ejaculates earlier than desired which leads to dissatisfaction in sexual intercourse in either the person or his partner. I would suggest you seek a psychiatric consultation regarding your problem. Your condition can be treated with medications and behavior therapy. The best response occurs when both are used together and a regular partner participates in the behavior therapy sessions. Medications would include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors like paroxetine (daily) or dapoxetine on as required basis. Behavior therapy sessions would incorporate relaxation training, sex education and learning methods like squeeze technique, start-stop method and distraction. Hope this information was helpful. Best wishes.