What Causes Severe Pain And Uncontrollable Urine Having Myopathy, Fibromyalgia And Slipped Disc?

hi, i have been diagnosed with a virginal prolapse. i also have many other health problems including cardio myopathy, fybromalgia, slipped disc at the base of my spine causing pressing on nerve down right hand leg. apprently the skin between my virgina and anus is so thin that everytime i have a smear or try and have sex it splits, hence i havnt had sex for nearly 3 years and am scared of getting into a relationship, i also have cirvical dystonia and laryngical dystonia. i feel totally isolated and suffer from depression. however, i want to try and improve the pain i am suffering in lower back, but i no the prolapse isnt helping and just wondered if there is anything i can do to help myself, the consultant says they will not operate because of my heart condition and i really dont no which way to turn, i cant even stand to wait for the kettle to boil it is so painful. also the dribbling after i have passed urine and think i have finished is awful???