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What Causes Sex Desire In A Child?

Hi, I have a 13yr old doughter who masterbates (she just turned 13). I don t like it because I don t want her to experiance sexual behaviours at such a young age. I ones lost my electronic tooth brush for like a month, then one day whil she was at school I found it hidden in her closet under her clothes, should she be using stuff that are related to sex toys? I then found her diary, she wrote that she couldn t stop fantasysing about michael Jackson, seriously, michael Jackson? She wrote that she had a dream about him and her having sex and that now she can t stop thinking about him inapropriatly, should I be concerned that she s feeling this way about a much older guy? She dosnt know I know because I don t want to embaress her, but also I would feel pretty uncomfterbul talking to her about it. Also one time when she was at a sleep over, I went onto her computer and checked her history to see what she s been looking at, I found alot of porn! And many re-searches of Michael Jackson sex vidios but their aren t any of him. She s been going onto alot of lesbian porn, I got very angry that when she arrived back home I told her that she s banned from going onto the Comp unless she has homework. But I know that yelling at her is not the best way. Is it normal? Should she be doing what she is?
Tue, 26 Feb 2019
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Hello,

Look this is really a crucial phase of her life. A misguided kid where she doesn't know what is right or wrong! Such kids are need of special care, love and support from their dear and near ones especially parents.

Yelling at her / just blast for one or other things is Not the answer at all. Proper counselling n support will surely help her out. I would suggest you do as follows :

Start spending more time with her as her friend. Share views on one or other things /topics. Go slowly. Gain her confidence so that she speaks out about her feelings n thoughts.

2. Involve her in some sports activities & also in some hobbies. Instrumental play. Music and all.

3. Good books, spiritual videos - discussions will also help. Overall to say just let her be busy with some constructive directions.

Internet should be stopped gradually. I hope after all this you can talk to her giving someone else example n tell stories n see her reactions.

Once she starts understanding the difference b/w good n bad. There won't be any problem left. A trained counsellor will be a better option.

Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Take care

Regards,
Dr Ajaygupta009, General & Family Physician
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What Causes Sex Desire In A Child?

Hello, Look this is really a crucial phase of her life. A misguided kid where she doesn t know what is right or wrong! Such kids are need of special care, love and support from their dear and near ones especially parents. Yelling at her / just blast for one or other things is Not the answer at all. Proper counselling n support will surely help her out. I would suggest you do as follows : Start spending more time with her as her friend. Share views on one or other things /topics. Go slowly. Gain her confidence so that she speaks out about her feelings n thoughts. 2. Involve her in some sports activities & also in some hobbies. Instrumental play. Music and all. 3. Good books, spiritual videos - discussions will also help. Overall to say just let her be busy with some constructive directions. Internet should be stopped gradually. I hope after all this you can talk to her giving someone else example n tell stories n see her reactions. Once she starts understanding the difference b/w good n bad. There won t be any problem left. A trained counsellor will be a better option. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care Regards, Dr Ajaygupta009, General & Family Physician