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What Causes Sexual Feelings Towards Same Sex In A Growing Child?
Hi.
Id like your opinion on my sexuality. I know you might say 'youve got to work it out yourself' or 'thats for you to decide' but i really need your help. I have a girlfriend and i do genuinely have feelings for her, and i can imagine being with her in a sexual way and i like this thought. However, whenever i masturbate, i always think about boys (like i imagine im wanking with my friends and i can see their dics) and this really turns me on, although the thought of having sex with another boy,or even having a relationship with a boy basicly disgusts me!
Is this normal?
p.s im a 14 year old boy
Id like your opinion on my sexuality. I know you might say 'youve got to work it out yourself' or 'thats for you to decide' but i really need your help. I have a girlfriend and i do genuinely have feelings for her, and i can imagine being with her in a sexual way and i like this thought. However, whenever i masturbate, i always think about boys (like i imagine im wanking with my friends and i can see their dics) and this really turns me on, although the thought of having sex with another boy,or even having a relationship with a boy basicly disgusts me!
Is this normal?
p.s im a 14 year old boy
Wed, 27 Aug 2014
Dear
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. For your knowledge, we do not have to work on the situation. This is so simple. Sexual attraction towards any sex is very normal during your adolescent period and the explanation is simple genetical functions of our body. As time progresses the body and sexual mind understands how the symtem works and adapt accordingly. You do not have to worry at all. Just forget about these unnecessary thoughts. You are young. You have to concentrate on your studies and career. Please do that.
If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. For your knowledge, we do not have to work on the situation. This is so simple. Sexual attraction towards any sex is very normal during your adolescent period and the explanation is simple genetical functions of our body. As time progresses the body and sexual mind understands how the symtem works and adapt accordingly. You do not have to worry at all. Just forget about these unnecessary thoughts. You are young. You have to concentrate on your studies and career. Please do that.
If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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