Hi there. I am desperate to find help. I was raped about a year and a half ago. I had very sharp pain in my vagina for about three days after it happened and developed flu like symptoms as well as a rash on the outside of my vagina that resembled razor burn even though I had not shaved. It didn t itch. I was tested for all common STDs including HIV and was negative. Fast forward about a year and I got into a relationship. The first time we had unprotected sex he developed a rash on the tip of his penis. It didn t itch. It looked like red dots all over. He developed flu like symptoms and the lymph nodes behind his ears were swollen. Thats when i noticed that The lymph nodes in my neck were swollen as well. I was getting rashes on my breasts that were red dots that were really itchy. When we have u protected sex my vagina gets very swollen and sore and sometimes I develop yeast symptoms but no yeast. I had blood work done which showed an elevated white blood cell count of %14.. Three months later it was down to %5.. All STDs still coming back negative. I have developed eye floaters, blurred vision, and have experienced sharp pains in my lower abdominal area and vagina. I have also had symptoms of a uti but no uti detected in my urine. I have no idea where to go from here. Any ideas? Please help!