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Myself and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three years. Since the first time we were intimate together my boyfriend has always felt sick during and after sex and foreplay. He thinks it may be the smell but he s not sure. We have been to many many doctors about the problem but we have just been dismissed. This is ruining our relationship. We have no sex life. We re only 23. We love each other so much yet we can t make love. Its not right. Please, I hope you can help us. We re sick of just being dismissed as if the problem isn t really. any help would be greatfully appreciated
Tiredness after intercourse, masturbation or ejaculation is normal thing nothing to worry here.
I had gone through your query and as you mentioned it was too short for sexual life. So, if you meant that you cant spend more time to sex than i would like to suggest you that go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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What Causes Sick Feeling During And After Sex?
Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, Tiredness after intercourse, masturbation or ejaculation is normal thing nothing to worry here. I had gone through your query and as you mentioned it was too short for sexual life. So, if you meant that you cant spend more time to sex than i would like to suggest you that go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati