hi. I am a 49 year old female. I have urinary retention that HAD been managed by Flomax. Over the course of a few days, I have added symptoms that scare me. Now, my stomach is quite distended, I am very constipated, can t pee and don t know what to do. Should I go to the ER? I have stick to 1200-1300 cals/day ( only 5ft tall), I exercise and the weight just keeps coming on plus all the above symptoms. I am frightened.