I had a problem where my ear cartalage got hard and hurt, then the next day my ear was all red and hot, I put a warm compress on it and ended up with water blisters all over my ear, the infection went into my lymph nodes and behind my ear and I ended up in the hospital for 2 days on intervenious antibiotics and then 8 days of antibiotices after I came home, could this have been a spider bite?