so my boyfriend and I have not had sexual intercourse yet 'cause I really don't want to do it yet, and fortunately he does not pressure me to...so we use the alternative, which would be a hand job or a blow job..my boyfriend have given me hand job a couple of times already but for the last two, I bleed a little. I thought it would because he was just doing it extra hard and fast the last two, but just to be sure is that ok?