Hi,
Since there is no penetration with penis or fingering, no need to worry about the
hymen if hymen issue you would be giving more details of your pain. Tearing pain or knife cutting pain.
As you explained he rubbed with his penis with or without condom both will cause heat and
injury or skin breakage.
Which leads to bleeding and pain, there will be tenderness in the vaginal region till the wound heals.
Other reason for pain and bleeding:
1. Vaginal infection
2. Dryness – infection, improper foreplay,
dehydration,
hormonal imbalance
3. Forceful sex
4. Benign or malignant polyp.
5. Anatomical abnormalities
6. Eczema
7. History of surgery
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Take care
Regards,
Dr S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist