Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Dream interpretation is an area where numerous researches were carried out. Still no one could achieve a proper theory for dream interpretation. Therefore, that area of research is still in a nascent stage. My suggestion in your case is that you do not read much into these dreams. Leave them alone. They are not going to control your life in any way. At least believe so. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.