My girlfriend and i have been together for ten tears. After moving in together i noticed that she has an anger problem. She gets very aggresive angry the way she speaks when she gets mad about something. She hates everyone in the family as her stepdad slept with her aunt behind her moms back and the family stuck up for the aunt and disowned her and her mom. She is always on the defencive and gets mad every time someone has a suggestion. She feels she is right about everything. She also states that she never forgets things when i have noticed that she does. In ten years i have been living with her,it was as if we live in a storage locker and gets worst by the day. She does not clean very often and when she does its not a very good job. She has never finished any projects she has started and keeps finding more projects to start. She has never had a steady job and as of four years ago,she got hurt at a job that she was at for four months and went on disability for it. She was diagnosed with RSD.(Regoinal Sympathetic Disorder). She has started to paint the inside of the house,but never finished. She started making clothes,never finished, she started to go through her boxes to organize,never finished. When i try to talk to her about this,she gets very mad(verbally) She never address's the issues other than to say that, "are you going to bring this up every time? I have been hearing it for ten years now!!" I do not know what to do! I have read things like adult ADD,biopolar. But for the most part,i can say that i should be diagnosed too! This woman seems to be on a path to destruction as i have spoken to her recently and said that i have had enough. I feel that if i end the relationship,she might be suicidal or be so depressed that so will not function. My girlfriend by the way is very jealous,stating that i should not talk to women,that they are coming on to me and that she wants to beat them up. So,That being said. Would you say that she is bipolar,ADD or just a nightmare of mental issues?