This is really embarrassing, I have had abcesses before, and I'm sure that's what this is... I have a golf ball sized lump in the fold where my leg and the side of my vagina meet. It's extremely painful, and I can feel it, but my husband says he can't see it, so I'm assuming it's flesh colored. Last night at about 5 am it exploded and a nasty tan/white pus that smells like feces came out of it. A LOT of pus, I'd estimate between half a cup and a cup. It's still painful, it's still draining. I am taking antibiotics, but I don't know if I should go to the dr or not.