Hello dear
I had gone through your question very diligently and I can understand your concern
I see such patients in my clinic routinely and I will definitely help you as well in best possible way
Looking at your history and photos this could be STI (sexually transmitted infection) or inflammation of penis due to rough sex
I would advise you for a battery of tests like blood for
hemoglobin CBC
liver and renal function test blood sugar urine culture and sensitivity test and swab culture from discharge
you may require a course of antibiotics under supervision of your doctor
To help you better I would like further information like
any recent exposure to unprotected sex?
since how long you are having this problem?
Meanwhile please follow these guidelines
wash it with antiseptic soap or solutions
apply antiseptic ointment like mupirocin
maintain good hygiene
Waiting for your reply
Follow up questions are most welcome
wishing you rapid recovery and good health
Regards