Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. I understand that you are quite worried about your sexual problem. From the description of your symptoms, it appears that you may be suffering from premature ejaculation. Often, this problem can be due to excessive anxiety, known as performance anxiety. Now, the first and most important step in management of this problem is proper evaluation. This will include a detailed medical, sexual, personal and social history, a thorough physical examination and certain investigations, as per the necessity. Only if the cause is identified correctly, appropriate treatment can be given. I suggest that you visit a Sexologist in your place for a detailed evaluation and further treatment. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar Consultant Psychiatrist