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What Is The Cause Of Small Sized Penis Leading To Poor Sexual Life?
hi, im 36 years old and have been married for 12 years. I have never been able to give my wife an orgasm. She complains often that my penis is too small to give her an orgasm. I admit that I am small. I'm 1 1/2" flacid and 4" erect but i cant satisfy her orally either. My wife says that i'm the only man she has been with that has not been able to give her an orgasm. To test if I was the problem, my wife, a very close friend of mine and i agreed that my wife would have sex with my freind and see if she could orgasm. I was crushed when not only did she have an orgasm but it was so explsive that she squirted and leaked fluid everywhere.When she was done she was flush and shaking. I had never seen her like that before. I guess i am the problem. Whats wrong with me.
Mon, 18 Apr 2016
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In my opinion, it was a monumental mistake to test your virility this way. You have put yourself to test and shifted the focus away from sex problem between a husband and wife. Your erect penis size is absolutely normal for an Asian and you can satisfy a female with a 2 inches erect penis more than a person with 6 inches. Inches don,t matter, your confidence, technique and chemistry between the two of you matters a lot. It is a matter of learning , after we explore any physical cause of the problem. I can teach you the art , PROVIDED, you two are honestly committed to your relationship.
I can tell you one thing for sure- she might have received a good orgasm due to novelty of sexual stimulation and excitement of experimenting , it may not be so after repeated sex with the same person because one your brain gets habituated plus the risk of adverse social and marital consequences.
I think you lack in self confidence and interpersonal chemistry is poor , size of your penis is not the root cause
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
In my opinion, it was a monumental mistake to test your virility this way. You have put yourself to test and shifted the focus away from sex problem between a husband and wife. Your erect penis size is absolutely normal for an Asian and you can satisfy a female with a 2 inches erect penis more than a person with 6 inches. Inches don,t matter, your confidence, technique and chemistry between the two of you matters a lot. It is a matter of learning , after we explore any physical cause of the problem. I can teach you the art , PROVIDED, you two are honestly committed to your relationship.
I can tell you one thing for sure- she might have received a good orgasm due to novelty of sexual stimulation and excitement of experimenting , it may not be so after repeated sex with the same person because one your brain gets habituated plus the risk of adverse social and marital consequences.
I think you lack in self confidence and interpersonal chemistry is poor , size of your penis is not the root cause
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
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