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What Is The Reason For Not Having A Feeling During Sex?
hello. My boyfriend and I are sexually active. we do oral too. but the problem is he says when he goes down on me mainly he can see or feel me cumming sometimes more then once. I don t ever feel it. even during sex I don t feel it I only feel when he finishes. is it bad I don t feel it or know im doing it. my boyfriend kind of got offended when I said I didn t feel it.
Mon, 27 Oct 2014
Good evening. Well these are very common problems during sex. What you really need to figure out is, are you doing it for fun or are you really in love. Males do have an orgasm at ease, but most females feel the need to be connected before they have an orgasm. If feeling that connection is needed for you during sex, kindly work on that. Guys do get offended when they feel they are not able to please you. It is more of a ego issue or failure to please you thing
. You need to help him guide the way you want in a polite way which wont offend him. Every female gets an orgasm in a different way and they know it the best. Talk things out, it will be the best for your relationship
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. You need to help him guide the way you want in a polite way which wont offend him. Every female gets an orgasm in a different way and they know it the best. Talk things out, it will be the best for your relationship
Hope the information was useful. Feel free to contact me for more queries
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