Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.You dont need to get embarrassed as lot of people having this.You should get rid off anxiety including performance anxiety and stress as those are main offenders in many men.You can practice squeeze and stop technique.You can deviate your thought to some thing nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping you can approach a sex therapist or psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like antidepressants.SSRIs like paroxetine or Dapoxetine are usually prescribed drugs.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.