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What Precautions Have To Be Taken During The First Intercourse?

I am 35 and have never had sex with a vigin girl though I have had lots of sex with non virgin girls. Now one is ready and I dont know how to go about it. I have had foreplay with her and we have had oral sex a few times before she said yes and the date is on. I have bough a tube of KY jelly for the occasion. I understand that the penis has to be ramrod stiff. What can I do to keep it stiff as I feel very nervous, and how not to hurt her and also not to hurt my penis. Is it true that even the penis hurts as I have a foreskin.                                                   
Mon, 15 Dec 2014
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Hello,

Thank you for writing to HCM,

No actually precautions which used for virgin but yes you should go for protected intercourse.

I had gone through your query and i would like to advice you that you should follow something if you dont want to hurt your partner. As i found you take some jelly for easy intercourse.

For the solution of easy intercourse i would like to suggest you that before you go for any lubricant or something you should have to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.

Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Use of different positions will also gives you and your partner less pain.

Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.

Hope you will find it helpful.

Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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What Precautions Have To Be Taken During The First Intercourse?

Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, No actually precautions which used for virgin but yes you should go for protected intercourse. I had gone through your query and i would like to advice you that you should follow something if you dont want to hurt your partner. As i found you take some jelly for easy intercourse. For the solution of easy intercourse i would like to suggest you that before you go for any lubricant or something you should have to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Use of different positions will also gives you and your partner less pain. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati