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What Should We Do For A Better Penetration To Conceive ?

we r married a year and now we r trying for a baby. since we r beginners we dnt know the exact positions for sex. many times we tried but couldnt make it to even half penetration. we r upset bcoz of that. we r shy to ask anyone. he s telling my vagina is tight for his penis. what should we do for a better penetration to conceive ?
Fri, 18 Mar 2011
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OBGYN 's  Response
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just relax. its ok. this happens to many newly married couples. you need to be less apprehensive at the time of sexual intercourse. you must try and induge in more foreplay, that will lubricate your vagine well so as to facilitate penetration. you can also try to use some lubricant jelly like xylocaine jelly or ky jelly. you can tell your husband to gently dilate your vagina with his fingers first.this way the vagina will open up and help in complete penetration.after complete penetration you must keep lying down in the same position and keep a pillow beneath your buttocks to elevate your bottom( for better sperm deposition).
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General & Family Physician Dr. Pragnesh Vachharajani's  Response
thanks for choosing health care magic.This is not a unusual problem.Very common in newly married. so not worry.Talk to each other and you will things going.If not you can speak to your family doctor and he will guide the proper way.If you are shy then husband only alone can visit family doctor and seek help.please refrain taking any advise from so called sexologist and ads appearing in media.Traditional missionary position with man on top is most practiced and comfortable position.please have sufficient time for foreplay before intercourse so that you enjoy the thing in total.do not have apprehension about this other wise performance pressure may worsen this.do not worry keep trying and you can some basic knowledge of human body via internet also that will help.buy
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What Should We Do For A Better Penetration To Conceive ?

hello just relax. its ok. this happens to many newly married couples. you need to be less apprehensive at the time of sexual intercourse. you must try and induge in more foreplay, that will lubricate your vagine well so as to facilitate penetration. you can also try to use some lubricant jelly like xylocaine jelly or ky jelly. you can tell your husband to gently dilate your vagina with his fingers first.this way the vagina will open up and help in complete penetration.after complete penetration you must keep lying down in the same position and keep a pillow beneath your buttocks to elevate your bottom( for better sperm deposition).