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..well.. when I want to have sex with my wife I have difficulty to insert my penis into her vagina because I can t see where is her vergina is located cuz its so down there and I don t have eyes in my penis. so..that s hard to control .what do you think about that ? you have a solution that helps me to insert my penis into her vagina in the right place without see down and struggle ? and by the way I am new at this so please understand this.. thank you very much
Your penis may not have eyes, but your eyes can see the vaginal opening and then you can insert the penis into the vagina. Mind well, initial few months to years, the vagina being rather tight, it may not be possible to insert the entire penis (full length) inside the vagina. You have to take it rather gently and slowly. You may try fingering before penile insertion. This helps to open the vagina. Application of lubricant is always advisable when insertion is difficult. Please do not used oil based lubricants, they are harmful to the woman's internal organs. Always use water based lubricants which are available as vaginal jellies or creams. It is always better to insert the penis under vision into the vagina (particularly while using condom) lest there is risk of touching it to the urinary opening causing urinary infection. I hope this should solve your problem and you enjoy your marital life thoroughly.
Hello It is very simple. Your wife knows from where she gets her periods. let her guide you to insert. Anyway, don't wworry much because it is the only hole where you can enter- others are urethra for urination and anus for passing stool . DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
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Your penis may not have eyes, but your eyes can see the vaginal opening and then you can insert the penis into the vagina. Mind well, initial few months to years, the vagina being rather tight, it may not be possible to insert the entire penis (full length) inside the vagina. You have to take it rather gently and slowly. You may try fingering before penile insertion. This helps to open the vagina. Application of lubricant is always advisable when insertion is difficult. Please do not used oil based lubricants, they are harmful to the woman s internal organs. Always use water based lubricants which are available as vaginal jellies or creams. It is always better to insert the penis under vision into the vagina (particularly while using condom) lest there is risk of touching it to the urinary opening causing urinary infection. I hope this should solve your problem and you enjoy your marital life thoroughly.