Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. First of all you must assess the condition whether it is split personality problem or some thing else like simple relationship issues. Even if there is a split personality disorder, the description given by you never helps to diagnose the condition. Therefore be some more specific about the symptoms. Or else you shall visit a psychologist, explain the condition to him and he shall be of immense help. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.