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Why Am I Not Able To Discuss Sex With My Wife Openly?

I am wondering why I can not talk dirty in the bedroom while looking my spouse in the eyes. the only time that I can talk like that is when my eyes r closed or if I can not see his face (like if i put my mouth near his ear) and I would like to know why this is.
Wed, 17 Dec 2014
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Hello,

Thank you for writing to HCM,

I had gone through your query and as you mentioned i would like to suggest you that its not sexual problem but its because of your nature. As you mentioned i think you are too much shy which could be the problem.

But if you take my advice i would like to advice you that you should change your nature because it might be affect even your sexual relationship. You just have to spend more time to sex and with your partner it may help you.

Other suggestion is you should go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.

Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.

Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.

Hope you will find it helpful.

Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Why Am I Not Able To Discuss Sex With My Wife Openly?

Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, I had gone through your query and as you mentioned i would like to suggest you that its not sexual problem but its because of your nature. As you mentioned i think you are too much shy which could be the problem. But if you take my advice i would like to advice you that you should change your nature because it might be affect even your sexual relationship. You just have to spend more time to sex and with your partner it may help you. Other suggestion is you should go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati