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my age is 25 years and my husband age is 30 years. its already 9 months for our marriage but we are unable to have any sexual relation. Whenever my husband tries to intercrose, i unfortunatelly tighten my tighs and he tries tries but unable to insert in my vagina. as its 9 months i am fearing is there any defect in me or in him . It becoming big problem for me i belierve love trust my husband a lot and he loves me a lot but i am unable to give him the happiness.
Please try to understand my problem and one more thing whenever we try my vagina is dry please help me
Hello Welcom to HCM. The problem which you have mentioned is called vaginismus. This is due to psychological fear of pain during intercourse. I would advice you both to indulge in foreplay initially for longer periods. Your husband can try to dilate your vagina initially with his fingers. Slowly as the vaginal hole becomes dilated, then you can have normal intercourse. Hope this helps. Thanks
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Why Are We Unable To Complete Intercourse?
Hello Welcom to HCM. The problem which you have mentioned is called vaginismus. This is due to psychological fear of pain during intercourse. I would advice you both to indulge in foreplay initially for longer periods. Your husband can try to dilate your vagina initially with his fingers. Slowly as the vaginal hole becomes dilated, then you can have normal intercourse. Hope this helps. Thanks