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I am 17 and I masturbated once. Being that I m a religious person of the bible I don t masturbate. My community doesn t approve of boys and girls hanging out or even talking until like your going to get married. so my issue is now that I have no girls to talk to or masturbate about them I feel like I could be gay..i also get hard looking at nude men.and the only way I can stimulate myself is how gay men do. Will this all clear up when I get married or will I always remain gay?
I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that its nothing like that but yes you had to divert your mind from this thinking.
You have to do nothing but whenever you have something like that in your mind divert your mind in some other activities. And dont let yourself think for active sexually with men.
At least you should watch porn movies to get excite yourself. As you described your religious not allowed to talk with girls before marriage than nothing bed in you but you will be definitely fine after marriage.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Why Do I Feel Like A Gay?
Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that its nothing like that but yes you had to divert your mind from this thinking. You have to do nothing but whenever you have something like that in your mind divert your mind in some other activities. And dont let yourself think for active sexually with men. At least you should watch porn movies to get excite yourself. As you described your religious not allowed to talk with girls before marriage than nothing bed in you but you will be definitely fine after marriage. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati