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Why Do I Have A Lack Of Desire For Sex?

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I cannot have sex with my wife. I have no desire to have sex with my wife. I understand that I have to have sex with my wife, and she wants it, but when I'm trying to have sex, my penis stays soft and I cannot perform. Alternatively, I am a stallion when I am with women other than my wife. I can perform 3-4 times a night - no problem. So, I guess, it is not a physical, but mainly a mental problem. Am I right? How can I deal with it? Is there a technique that would help me to get erection when I am with my wife?
posted on Fri, 14 Mar 2014
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Sex is not just a physical phenomenon, it is much beyond that. Its a union of two souls. As far your problem with your wife is considered, there are certain options to light up your sexual life with your wife. For example, consider having foreplay before having sex or you could go on a honeymoon again to give yourself both to spend time with each other and watching erotic videos while having sex might help you out to get erection. Multiple sexual partners will only increase your risk of getting an Sexually transmitted Infections or HIV/AIDS. Be faithful with your partner and enjoy your sexual life.
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Why Do I Have A Lack Of Desire For Sex?

Sex is not just a physical phenomenon, it is much beyond that. Its a union of two souls. As far your problem with your wife is considered, there are certain options to light up your sexual life with your wife. For example, consider having foreplay before having sex or you could go on a honeymoon again to give yourself both to spend time with each other and watching erotic videos while having sex might help you out to get erection. Multiple sexual partners will only increase your risk of getting an Sexually transmitted Infections or HIV/AIDS. Be faithful with your partner and enjoy your sexual life.