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Why The Behaviour Of My Son Is Unusual?
sir my son is 18yrs old nd he talks vch has no sense his eys r gone blk.he has started hating me ,his frnds,his teachers nd few others.his behaviour is also unusual.he is lacking in his studies.vat evr v say he does d opposite.he keep distance frm others.vat should v do now
Wed, 7 May 2014
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It is quite usual at this age that children behave like this. He has partially entered adulthood. We know this, but not your son. Blame it on the hormones. He is confused. All he need is parental support and love. Your must not force your love to him. To love and support means to be there for him when he wants. To give what he wants. Nothing more nothing less. Even though sometimes it might seem that by doing so you are going away from your basic principles of life, still then its fine if it gives him happiness.
Make sure that you are providing him the right family atmosphere at home. Try to be friendly by just listening to him. Never advice if he seems irritated. Children hate advises. Watch him and join him if he is fine with it. There will be a reason for his behavior or simply it could be hormonal which needs no treatment but love and support.
If you still find no clue, better get him a friendly consultation from an expert.
Thankyou
It is quite usual at this age that children behave like this. He has partially entered adulthood. We know this, but not your son. Blame it on the hormones. He is confused. All he need is parental support and love. Your must not force your love to him. To love and support means to be there for him when he wants. To give what he wants. Nothing more nothing less. Even though sometimes it might seem that by doing so you are going away from your basic principles of life, still then its fine if it gives him happiness.
Make sure that you are providing him the right family atmosphere at home. Try to be friendly by just listening to him. Never advice if he seems irritated. Children hate advises. Watch him and join him if he is fine with it. There will be a reason for his behavior or simply it could be hormonal which needs no treatment but love and support.
If you still find no clue, better get him a friendly consultation from an expert.
Thankyou
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