Sorry if this sounds silly. Last night I met a great guy and I really like him. The problem is that he s too big for me. He s over a foot and a half taller and he s also too big down there too. I really like him, but sex was painful and I m sore, bruised and it stings. I m want to do whatever I can to make the sex work so we have a chance. I heard somewhere that anal sex might help. That even though it s tighter at first, the butt can accomodate something bigger better than my vagina can. I didn t even think about this last night, but I really like him, and if this will help I m willing to put my fears aside and try. I ve tried anal sex before with other guys and I actually do like it. I just was afraid to do it with him. I want to make this work, because I haven t fallen for anyone this fast before. Yes, oral is an option but I want to be able to have sex with him. I don t think you can have a relationship with only oral. We re not in highschool anymore. Oh, and thank you to everyone that s calling me a ho. I knew the question sounded weird, but I m willing to try anything and I wanted to get some advice before I did. Is that so wrong?