My mother is 81, was a healthy women who was active 4day a week tennis player, played bridge 5 days, and shopped and got around on her own just fine. Most nights my dad and she went out socially for dinner with other couples. Her last vacation w/ my dad was Sept. 2010 on a cruise to Egypt, Turkey, Italy, etc. she participated in all excursions. (she weighed in at about 120 5 3) Fast forward to Aug.2011 my dad dies, we r all devastated and my mother starts to wither away. Starts to lose energy. Blood work done, heart, lung stress test all perfect. 78 lbs, no appetite, making the bed exusts her. She s on sleeping pill/antidepressant. Cholesterol and Bloodpressure med.(only went up after dad died) she has no appetite EVER!! What can I do? I could not save my daddy he hid his illness please I don t want to lose her!!!!!! Lisa