Question: I received a hand job from a masseuse. That's it. She used oil and no bodily fluids were passed. Is there any chance she could have passed me an std?

I heard that people can get herpes on their hands and spread it that way. I've also heard that you cannot spread any std through touch, hand job, or fingerings

Which I'm sure to have hand lesions of any STD is Damn near impossible or almost extremely unlikely.

It was dark, but even still. I am very sure that I would feel lesions On her hands. plus the event that it's probably one in many millions that it spread to her hands anyway.

I doubt that there will be other than symptoms from anxiety. I have never heard of anybody catching an std from a hand job and have read that it is actually a practice of safe sex.

I understand that. I guess what I was saying was that herpes out breaks are occasional as it is and extremely rare to spread to other parts of the body so the chances of her getting lesions on her hands and me coming into contact with them is one in millions if not more. Given that she carried the virus at all.

Hello again. 6 weeks ago, I received a fellatio from a massage parlor worker with a condom. I don't believe there was any skin to skin, but she could have put it on with her mouth. She did not have any symptoms that I could see around her mouth. I shaved to the skin all around my genitals the day prior. THe whole thing lasted less than a minute. The following weekend, I went to visit family and had forgotten any changes of clothes so I wore the same underwear for 4 days straight and had ran a few miles in them on friday before I left. By that Sunday, there was definitely some heat coming from my genitals, so I put some after shave lotion on there, which seemed to make it worse. I put Cortizone cream on there and have been feeling better since. I was also tested for all STDs (including HSV1 & 2) which came back negative and was diagnosed with folliculitis and given Bactroban. Which I also had loss of appetite and nervousness, hard time sleeping at night. That was two weeks ago and now I think my nerves are getting to me as I have a fiance and I don't know if the things I feel are actually something or in my head. I did have a random muscle spasm like feeling that would occur in the tip of my penis, but no discharge and would random feel discomfort, but would not itch in the tip. It did not burn when I urinated. That feeling has since gone away so I am thinking it was just my anxiety. I went and saw my doctor today and received anxiety and depression medication, but after leaving there, he has me worried sick about HIV. I went there to confirm that I can't have herpes and now he has me worried about a whole other viru . Any help would be much appreciated!