Question: Hello
I live in Egypt if that matters for your diagnosis . I am also a software programmer , i do not work in the medical field .
So the classic story .
On 1 XXXXXXX 2013 i had sex with a girl ( this is the first time i had sex ) .She is not a sex worker but you can say she plays around a lot .
It was protected but we had a sort of unprotected contact plus oral sex . I also took Viagra .
On the second day my throat felt very sore . I was stressed about this issue. I also got from her a UTI and went to see a doctor . I took antibiotics and the UTI was clear .
During the UTI i did not see pus yellow or green , just clear discharge some times after urination .
I did urine analysis after that and also a urine culture and every thing seemed perfect in both . Even before the antibiotics the WBC in urine seemed a bit elevated , that doctor did not want to give me antibiotics but i insisted on taking them . I took an injection and 2 pills .
The doctor told me i have
prostatitis though cause i had waist pain and
testicle pain that persisted until now .
My
sore throat never went away , so i visited ENT .
The ENT told me your throat is perfect i dont see any problems but your
acid reflux is bad . your nose is also affected by the acid , ( he used some endoscope to check my throat and nose )
About 4 weeks later i notice my tonsilar lymph nodes swollen .
At that point i was so scared of HIV . I never got fever , rash , sweats , cough , running nose , or flu like symptoms ( classic HIV i assume ) , just the lymph nodes .I dont get flu since years thanks to the
vaccination .
I was scared that i got a strain of HIV that did not show the normal HIV symptoms but enlarged my lymph nodes .
I can feel something in my neck when i look to the right or left but no one can see it . I can feel it with my finger when i look to the right or left . Also small one on the side of my neck maybe lentil sized . but the tonsilar ones are kinda big , but not seen at all .
I went to see another ENT and he said do not worry about the lymph nodes . He searched with his hands and said i cannot find them even the one on the side of my neck .
He also checked my throat and told me it seems perfect , he said i will not prescribe any medicine to you cause you do not suffer from any thing except acid reflux .
I went back to my
urologist , cause of the prostatitis issues , he didnt want to do further tests , but i insisted . I did semen culture and the WBC was very high . 1.2 million . I went back to him and he put me on Cypro for 1 month . I dont see much improvment with that antibiotic , still
pain in my groin area and the lymph in my groin is felt . I can feel them .
I also wonder why i never got fever for the
prostate infection ? My temp is 36.5 which is way below normal throughout this entire time . I measure my temp maybe 5 times daily .
I was stressed about HIV and thought about it a lot . I hate to stress about something so i decided to be sure i dont have HIV to put my mind to rest .
I waited 4 month and 20 days and did the following tests . Did the test on 20 October for
Hep B
Hep C
HIV
All came negative .
This put my mind at ease a lot , cause those diseases are the big deal as far as i know . I thought if i dont have one of those then i am ok , any thing else is curable .
Is the 4 month 20 days period good to be sure 100% that i didnt catch HIV ?
I heard some people say 3 month and some say 4 weeks and some say 6 months .
Knowing that i did not get any rash in my body or genitals , i assume i dont have syphilis or HSV .
I am right in this ?
Can someone have syphillis but not show the classic rash on the phase 1 and 2 of the disease ?
Is it possible that i have some other STD like chlamydia in my throat that causes the lymph nodes to enlarge ? But is it possible that the ENT cannot see a chlamydia
throat infection ? Do you suggest i do chlamydia or gnorhea
throat culture ?
Is it possible that i have another STD that is in the blood only but not showing any symptoms except the lymph nodes in the neck ?
Could the bacteria in the prostate be wondering in the blood or something and proceeding towards a Sepsis and that causes the lymph in my neck ?
I also want to know what are the risks of prostatitis since i know i have this now ? Can this hurt my body in some other way or it will be always contained in the prostate ? Can there be complications from it ?
Can the infection in the prostate cause lymph nodes in other places of the body to enlarge ?
What are other STDS out there that could enlarge my neck lymph nodes ? OR the lymph nodes are not related to an STD at all and its all about the
throat inflammation from Acid , which i can feel every day in the morning . I wake up with burning feeling in my throat that goes away after i drink and so .
Do you think i might have Mono , that did not show flu symptoms but enlarged my lymph nodes?
Also can a mono infection cause my lymph nodes to remain swollen like this for several months while not showing flu like symptoms ?
Another thing worth mentioning i get tingling feelings near my colar bone , and pins and needles in my neck , behind the ears , back of the neck , front of the neck , the feeling of insects walking on my neck ( but without the insects ) . Is there any STD that can cause such symptoms ? I know i am straining my muscles from the anxiety a lot . I took my anxiety to a new level really during the last few months .
I will never have sex again and i wont get married even . Peace of mind is a great thing .
I am sorry i am flooding you with questions but really i am stressed about having something that no one can find .
I also want to let you that i was being treated from anxiety , my condition was up and down last years .
I been on seroxat for sometime , but i read that is a bad medicine and decided to stop it . I went through hell to clear it from my body , i do not want to tell you this long story .
My heart the left shoulder always hurt and i checked for all heart issues and they found nothing .
I am also talking to another doctor on your site that might help me find another drug to help with the anxiety issues , maybe long term
anti depressant or something .
Thank you for reading all this , i know it sounds complicated , but this is what happened .