How Can The Pain,itching And Red Spots On Penis Be Treated?
Thanks for your query.
The lesions you have make me suspicious of genital herpes in you caused by Virus called Herpes genitalis which is a communicable and is a sexually transmitted infection which could be the same in your partner too hence she has uncomfortable feeling during the intercourse.
The Pap test is basically for checking Cervical Cancer and not for infections like herpes.
If your girl friend has some creamy, smelly discharge from vagina, she has most probably VAGINITIS. If there are red spots inside her vagina, then most probably it is GENITAL HERPES or it can be due to bacteria which can be determined after a detailed per vaginal examination by a Gynecologist. Do consult for the same.
For the lesions you have , i would advice you to consult a Dermatologist and get treated with appropriate antivirals after confirming the fact that its Herpes.
But see to it that both of you are treated simultaneously. Otherwise you will pass on infection (cross-infection) to each other.
Hope i have answered your query completely , I would wait for your follow up if any.