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How To Determine A Broken Hymen?

Posted on Thu, 10 Nov 2016

Question: 4yrs ago,i have penetration with my x 2times,he cheate me,he is already merried,& force me for sex ,both the time his penis is inreact its not tight,first time i didnt bleed,but 2nd time i bleed,after penetration bleeding is stop,i see blood on my dress,after some day my 2nd bf see in my vergina my hymen is scratch from bottom bit still intact,that time i have full sex with him,but its my period 4th day,but my period blood flow is almost gone,after sex my bf see blood on his penis,
dr plz help me,bcoz first guy cheate me,and 2nd one is now my husband,i feel shame inside,i feel i dont give him chance for break my hymen,but he say he break my hymen,dr plz tell me,which one is important for me,my husband get a chance to break my hymen or not?and this blood is period blood or hymen blood?

Answered by Dr. Deepti Verma (16 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Hymen was broken in second act

Detailed Answer:
Hi dear,
I have gone through your question and understand your concerns.
If after having sexual act with the first person, the hymen was intact, and only a scratch was there, then there is no reason to have guilt.
This is because your hymen was broken by the second person during intercourse, as the blood was present on the penis after the act.
The blood was most likely due to hymenal breakage.
Hope you found the answer helpful.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma
OBGYN

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Deepti Verma (10 hours later)

are you confirm doctor,the second act is imporatant not first

Answered by Dr. Deepti Verma (20 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Yes

Detailed Answer:
Hi dear,
Yes, by the description you gave, I am sure that your hymen broke in the second act.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj

Follow up: Dr. Deepti Verma (8 minutes later)

but dr it can be possible fisrt time after penetration and bleeding,my hymen is still intact?what is the reason?why my hymen is intact?

Answered by Dr. Deepti Verma (9 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Slight tearing of hymen

Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, the hymen is a elastic structure which is broken by the erect penis during first intercourse.
If the penis is not erect, the hymen may not break and there may be only slight tearing of hymen leading to bleeding after penetration.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Nagamani Ng

Follow up: Dr. Deepti Verma (1 hour later)

Thanku so much dr...
Dr how can know penis is not ereact,what is diffrence between ereact or inereact penis?
If the semen is not discharch that means this is a inereact penis?
& dr he is already merried that means he is already have sex with his wife many times,can be thats why his penis is inereact,its possible?
& one more thing dr after penetration with first guy when i bleed,after that i feel open & loose in my vergina,why i feel open & loose?whats the reason?

Answered by Dr. Deepti Verma (2 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Previous sexual history do not effect erection.

Detailed Answer:
Hi dear, erect penis means hard and engorged penile shaft. Semen discharge has nothing to do with erection. Previous sexual history do not effect erection.
The feeling of looseness in vagina after first intercourse is only subjective, it has no relation to the breakage of hymen.
Regards
Dr Deepti Verma

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Veerisetty Shyamkumar