How To Determine The Date Of Conception?
Unfortunately, it is unlikely you have a viable pregnancy
Detailed Answer:
Hello, and I hope I can help you today.
First, when doctors refer to how many weeks pregnant you are, we usually mean how many weeks since the first day of your last menstrual period. The reason is that we cannot determine your exact date of ovulation or conception, so that is the convention generally used.
If your last real menstrual period was 9/14, then you must have conceived some time in early October. However, the doctor who said you were three weeks pregnant was speaking incorrectly as he was referring to 3 weeks from conception. You really were 5 weeks pregnant since your last period.
In a normal pregnancy, the level of pregnancy hormone is supposed to double every 48 hours and by a HCG hormone level. A transvaginal ultrasound is more accurate than an abdominal one, so the fact that you haven't yet had an abdominal one will not likely change the diagnosis.
Because now in December it has been about 8-9 weeks since your last menstrual period, the fetus should measure about 8-9 weeks and have a heartbeat.
If you did not have a positive pregnancy test in October, then it might be possible you conceived later, but since we know you were pregnant in October that sort-of rules out incorrect dating. The fact that you didn't really menstruate when you had the IUD is just a side effect of the device and has no bearing on the dating of this pregnancy. Once the IUD is removed your normal cycles come right back as the IUD does not stop ovulation.
However, there are exceptions to every rule, and if this is a desired pregnancy there is no reason to rush making a decision about having a procedure right now. It can be normal to not see a heartbeat at 6 weeks, but not at 7 weeks.
The best way to proceed is to repeat the ultrasound in a week or two and see if the fetus grows and develops a heartbeat. If not- then you will have a definite answer.
Even if the fetus has died, the supporting tissue for the pregnancy still makes HCG, so you may still feel pregnant.
So in summary, I advise to hope for the best but prepare for the worst. And there is no harm in waiting to see what happens. However, the likelihood that your dating is wrong is very unlikely in this scenario.
I hope I was able to answer your question today and that this information was helpful. If you need anything further, or find any part of this explanation confusing, please do not hesitate to contact me again.
Sincerely, Dr. Brown