Brief Answer:
Premature ejaculation
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for the additional information.
The problem that you are having is called premature ejaculation and I see many such patients in my clinic. Now its a type of
anxiety disorder and the person normally suffers from performance anxiety where in he is anxious if he can perform or not.
First you can try the start stop technique. Your wife is supposed to start stimulating you and the moment you are about to ejaculated she is supposed to stop all the stimulaton and and hold your penis head hard. Now this should be repeated.
Perineal exercises also help. These are the
muscle exercises that occur when you contract the perineal muscles like when you are trying to stop the urine or feces. You have to do this contrations repeatedly daily to tone up the perineal muscles.
One solution is medications. Some patients are not willing to wait for these acts to produce results and instead demand medicines. I prescribe them 12.5 mg
paroxetine at night and they are doing good. Normally one should try until 25mg of Paroxetine. If paroxetine is not effective then
Dapoxetine is an option. It has to be given 1 hour before having sex and will prolong the sexual interval.
You may meet a
psychiatrist or a
sexologist who can further help you with these exercises and prescription for the medicines.
Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
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Wish you good health,
Kind regards
Dr. Srikanth Reddy M.D.
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