Hello,
You are 22 yrs young adult male. Just like anybody you have masturbated from the age of 15. You think your erectile problem and premature ejaculation is due to masturbation. I think you have been misguided by some advertisement or by some body.
I assume that lack of understanding about sex is the reason for your problems. Forget the opinion that your problems are due to masturbation. Consider that masturbation is just like overflow of water from the storage tank. Once the water is full, it has to overflow. How did you know that you have premature ejaculation (PME) and erectile Dysfunction(ED) by masturbation or you had a sex with a woman?
PME is closely linked with ED. Some people in order to avoid PME, they may divert their mind from sex which may lead to ED.
Males are easily aroused and quickly emit. This is entirely reverse for women.
Arousal of women and emission (urethral discharge), is more important in sex.
Arousal and supposed to be emission for women are outside the vagina (clitoris) and not by intercourse (which is only further pleasure for them). This explained to you, to understand how to prevent PME and ED.
First, avoid sex or masturbation when you are in tension, worry, tired, after a long travel, and the situation is not suitable for sex.
Sex is an art. Both the partners should be hygienic. As told you earlier arouse her fully until she gets her orgasm. Then you start your part with her co-operation.
While doing sex don't be in hurry to get erect, you will automatically aroused. Once aroused do the performance slowly (thinking that as an art). You will not have PME.
Talking about the link between ANXIETY. Anxiety leads to DEPRESSION. Depression leads to PME and ED. This is the cause for majority PME and ED.
If you feel that you have anxiety or worry about PME and Ed, take drugs like Clonazepam or fluoxetine prior to sex after consulting your DR.

With best wishes
Dr. S. Jegadeesan

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Hello,

If you are a old man with diabetes, hypertension or ischemic heart disease with actual sexual disability it is easy to answer.

For you (considering your age) it is not like Tab. Paracetamol - take it for fever. I can’t just say take Tab Viagra, because Viagra is not for your age.

An analysis or self assessment is needed, which you have to explain me in detail.
1) So far did you have sex with ladies and how was your sexual performance at that time and what problem you faced.
2) Do you have an early morning erection, if so how is the erection
3) On your routine work do you get aroused (erected) on seeing some beautiful sexy girls or watching movies.
4) How is your erection while doing masturbation in relaxed mood with a good aphrodisiac movies, picture or imaginations.

Answer these questions. We will have further discussion.

Best wishes,

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Hello,
Thanks for your followup question,

Please go through my last answer, out of that 4 questions you have answered only the first one. I presume that you tried sex with a girl partner and noticed your sex problem. Wait. Think and understand, then try to answer ALL my remaining questions also. Then only we (especially you) can come to a conclusion and try a possible way of solution.This answer shows your tension and hurried way of expression without understanding.
Best wishes for success

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