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Question: i need urgent help im married and its been almost 5 months and i have very bad phobia of intercourse im super scared of pain and unable to do please help have applied ky jelly also but all in pain is there any medicine taht i can have and i dont feel that im doing intercourse as i think scared i snot going from my mind so its better to have some medicine and do it can you please help me pls pls help i will spoil may marriage life my husband will give me divorce which i dont want
Brief Answer:
tramadol with daiclofenac and muscle relaxant
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX
Thanks for writing back to us. I can understand your situation.
You have been recommended to take brufen or diclofenac for pain before intercourse. If you have tried and still pain is there I recommend tramadol with diclofenac and muscle relaxant (Chlorzoxazone) before 2 hours of intercourse. This combination of medicines can prevent pain very well. Ask your doctor to prescribe these medicines.
To help you further I need more information.
- Have you consulted gynecologist and/or psychiatrist personally as recommended before? If yes please provide the details.
- KY jelly gives just lubrication. How was the experience with lignocaine gel?
- What does actually happen when you attempt sex? Describe your and yours husband situation and opinion?
- Did hymen break or still intact?
- Is your menstrual cycle regular?
I will be happy to help further after your response.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
tramadol with daiclofenac and muscle relaxant
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX
Thanks for writing back to us. I can understand your situation.
You have been recommended to take brufen or diclofenac for pain before intercourse. If you have tried and still pain is there I recommend tramadol with diclofenac and muscle relaxant (Chlorzoxazone) before 2 hours of intercourse. This combination of medicines can prevent pain very well. Ask your doctor to prescribe these medicines.
To help you further I need more information.
- Have you consulted gynecologist and/or psychiatrist personally as recommended before? If yes please provide the details.
- KY jelly gives just lubrication. How was the experience with lignocaine gel?
- What does actually happen when you attempt sex? Describe your and yours husband situation and opinion?
- Did hymen break or still intact?
- Is your menstrual cycle regular?
I will be happy to help further after your response.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thanks and i hope medicine will help
i really dont know hymen is broke or not as i dont allow him to do at all bcos of phobia taht it will pain and secondly now my husband is irritated and me too i want to do but scared is not allowing me to do i keep my legs so tight dont ask then he never force and my periods are very regular
lignocaine gel nothing happens no numbness i actually want some numbness tablet
pls suggest some numbness tablet so that i dont feel at all
i really dont know hymen is broke or not as i dont allow him to do at all bcos of phobia taht it will pain and secondly now my husband is irritated and me too i want to do but scared is not allowing me to do i keep my legs so tight dont ask then he never force and my periods are very regular
lignocaine gel nothing happens no numbness i actually want some numbness tablet
pls suggest some numbness tablet so that i dont feel at all
Brief Answer:
you need counselling
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for information.
Actually there is no medicine which directly can numb the vaginal area, only topical gel like lignocaine can help for the same.
However medicines I mentioned will likely help you. Adding to that you can take anti anxiety like clonazepam which also will help.
I still recommend consulting gynecologist and psychiatrist personally. You need detail counseling regarding phobia of pain overall as well as pain during intercourse. With relaxation you can get well fast and save your marriage life.
Feel free to discuss further.
you need counselling
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
Thanks for information.
Actually there is no medicine which directly can numb the vaginal area, only topical gel like lignocaine can help for the same.
However medicines I mentioned will likely help you. Adding to that you can take anti anxiety like clonazepam which also will help.
I still recommend consulting gynecologist and psychiatrist personally. You need detail counseling regarding phobia of pain overall as well as pain during intercourse. With relaxation you can get well fast and save your marriage life.
Feel free to discuss further.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thanks a million for your help i hope medicines will work and will save my married life and if hymen breaks then intercourse can be done easily or what and mine is break or not i dont know.
medicine i can take how much tym before doing intercourse
it will pain for how long and it will be very painful
medicine i can take how much tym before doing intercourse
it will pain for how long and it will be very painful
Brief Answer:
before 2 hours
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
You should take medicines before 2 hours with some food or milk.
Pain of hymen breaking/intercourse is not severe and it is tolerable by most of the females.With these medicines there is less possibility of pain. Pain if it all is there it will be for few seconds to minutes only if hymen is completly intact. Otherwise there will be no pain at all. You just need to keep your self relax without thinking or apprehension about pain and allow your husband to enter completely.
You can do it I guess.
After one successful attempt you will be more comfortable and can settle in sex life easily.
If still any query there, I will be happy to answer. If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback and rating so I can improve my service. In future you can contact me directly on this site if you wish with this link:
XXXX
by clicking on 'Ask me a question' on same page.
All the best and take care.
before 2 hours
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
You should take medicines before 2 hours with some food or milk.
Pain of hymen breaking/intercourse is not severe and it is tolerable by most of the females.With these medicines there is less possibility of pain. Pain if it all is there it will be for few seconds to minutes only if hymen is completly intact. Otherwise there will be no pain at all. You just need to keep your self relax without thinking or apprehension about pain and allow your husband to enter completely.
You can do it I guess.
After one successful attempt you will be more comfortable and can settle in sex life easily.
If still any query there, I will be happy to answer. If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback and rating so I can improve my service. In future you can contact me directly on this site if you wish with this link:
XXXX
by clicking on 'Ask me a question' on same page.
All the best and take care.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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