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Question: I and My girlfriend are ready to sex and both are virgin can I break her hymen or viginity in a day or so because she is coming for a day to my place from long distance ?
Brief Answer:
it depends on will of both,understanding and capacity
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
The question is your mind is situational. If you both are agree for sex and ready to move forward and want to lose virginity you can break her hymen.
As she is experiencing sex first time she may have some pain if hymen is fully intact as well as some bleeding also.
In some girls during young age due to some physical/sport activity hymen breaks partially sometime. In those girls no or very less pain while first intercourse.And in some girl lumen/hole of hymen is already so enlarged that it can be easily stretchable and no pain or no bleeding there even in first incidence of sex.
If she agrees to pass through this stage of sex you can.You may have to try multiple attempts if hymen doesn't break in first attempt.
Note: Please use condom. Do sex if she is ready and understand the consequences. Do not force her and respect her thoughts also.
Hope I have answer your query, I will be happy to help further.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
it depends on will of both,understanding and capacity
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX
The question is your mind is situational. If you both are agree for sex and ready to move forward and want to lose virginity you can break her hymen.
As she is experiencing sex first time she may have some pain if hymen is fully intact as well as some bleeding also.
In some girls during young age due to some physical/sport activity hymen breaks partially sometime. In those girls no or very less pain while first intercourse.And in some girl lumen/hole of hymen is already so enlarged that it can be easily stretchable and no pain or no bleeding there even in first incidence of sex.
If she agrees to pass through this stage of sex you can.You may have to try multiple attempts if hymen doesn't break in first attempt.
Note: Please use condom. Do sex if she is ready and understand the consequences. Do not force her and respect her thoughts also.
Hope I have answer your query, I will be happy to help further.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thank u doc I also want to know should she prepare herself before having sex I mean like she says she felt burning sensation when she fingered ?
Brief Answer:
physical and mental preparation will be useful
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up.
Explain her what I have mentioned in previous answer.
After breaking of hymen with intercourse she will feel enjoyable pain of sex which leads her to orgasm.
She should try to enjoy the procedure and make herself relax as much as possible so her pelvic muscles get relaxed and she would have less/no pain.
You can use lubricant like KY jelly.It is water based non toxic lubricant. You can apply in vagina as well as on condom of your penis.
Give enough time in foreplay to make her aroused for vaginal secretion for lubrication.You should be gentle as much as possible and she should be tolerant as much as possible .This will lead to success of your act in easier way.
All the best.
Feel free to ask if more queries.
physical and mental preparation will be useful
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up.
Explain her what I have mentioned in previous answer.
After breaking of hymen with intercourse she will feel enjoyable pain of sex which leads her to orgasm.
She should try to enjoy the procedure and make herself relax as much as possible so her pelvic muscles get relaxed and she would have less/no pain.
You can use lubricant like KY jelly.It is water based non toxic lubricant. You can apply in vagina as well as on condom of your penis.
Give enough time in foreplay to make her aroused for vaginal secretion for lubrication.You should be gentle as much as possible and she should be tolerant as much as possible .This will lead to success of your act in easier way.
All the best.
Feel free to ask if more queries.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
she feels that in future if in worst scenario if she marries someone does he get to know she is not virgin ?
Brief Answer:
if she is smart enough to hide, he can not judge about her virginity
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for query.
Her concern is absolutely right on her part.However this concern is totally personal and to hide the same or not is an individual perception and matter.
I would like to give my opinion that how she can prevent such thing in future.
There is no specific sign or symptoms which can confirm that virginity is there or not. Only person himself/herself can reveal the truth.
If she can show some signs of pain while doing sex with him first time, he would not doubt her anymore.If any issue related to hymen arises by chance,she can convince her future husband that her hymen was accidentally broken during some sports activity long back.
Hope she will be relax after hearing this.
If still any query there, I will be happy to answer. If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback and rating so I can improve my service. In future you can contact me directly on this site if you wish with this link:
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
by clicking on 'Ask me a question' on same page.
Wish you good luck.
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
if she is smart enough to hide, he can not judge about her virginity
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for query.
Her concern is absolutely right on her part.However this concern is totally personal and to hide the same or not is an individual perception and matter.
I would like to give my opinion that how she can prevent such thing in future.
There is no specific sign or symptoms which can confirm that virginity is there or not. Only person himself/herself can reveal the truth.
If she can show some signs of pain while doing sex with him first time, he would not doubt her anymore.If any issue related to hymen arises by chance,she can convince her future husband that her hymen was accidentally broken during some sports activity long back.
Hope she will be relax after hearing this.
If still any query there, I will be happy to answer. If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback and rating so I can improve my service. In future you can contact me directly on this site if you wish with this link:
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
by clicking on 'Ask me a question' on same page.
Wish you good luck.
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thank you so much doc u have been a great help
Brief Answer:
Good luck and have safe sex
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
You are always welcome.
All the best and have safe sex.
Take care.
Good luck and have safe sex
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
You are always welcome.
All the best and have safe sex.
Take care.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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