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Suggest Remedy For Addiction To Masturbation

Posted on Thu, 11 Jun 2015

Question: Hi Doctor, i have married for over 5 years now. And have been masturbating regularly for last 12 yrs. And i think thats what screwing my married life. I dont feel like having sex with my wife. And it only happens sometimes once in a month. And i think its a time for planning for a baby. We had miscarriage last time 3 yrs back. And Abortion 5 yrs back as was not ready for the child. She was well disgnosed by Gynaecologist as there should be no problem for her to conceive. But i think because of this situation now i might be the culprit. I dont wanted to screw my married life but need your support. I am 26yrs old. And fond of porn alot and to be honest masturbating more than 3 times in a day and that happens daily. Because of this sometimes i am not able to have erection and its not hard enough sometimes to penetrate and also if i have sex by any chance then its only for 1 minute or 2. please guide me and i tried to stop masturbating but unable to do so. Also request you to please keep my info personal as dont wanted or not comfortable sharing with anyone, including my email as well.

Answered by Dr. Rakesh Madhyastha (40 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Masturbation

Detailed Answer:
Hello

Thanks for the query

Masturbation of more than 3 times a week is a problem. I am happy that you know the cause for your problem.
Here is what I suggest

1. Increase the time of foreplay. Increased foreplay causes more arousal and more hardness of the penis
2. I advice my patients to be away from the internet including whatsapp, mail ( if possible), facebook, etc for a week. Take a vacation with your wife for a week, I am sure you will develop active interest with her
3. Do not watch porn, if it has become addictive then I suggest you to watch intimate scenes and not explicit material. Initimate scenes like in the movies can be watched along with your wife, arousal can lead onto actual sex and not masturbation
4. Speak to your wife about the things you like in bed, maybe that can help
5. I dont recommend any medication as of now. Stopping masturbation can help you get hard, no treatment is required for that

I hope I was of help, if you have any further queries please get back to me

regards

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Rakesh Madhyastha (14 hours later)

Doctor as you said i will try to stop it and also avoid watching porn as well but if any possibilities for the medicines for the same, would be highly appreciated. And sometime i think that i got small size as it is not more than 3-4 inches when completely erected. Please advice me something which will show result.

Answered by Dr. Rakesh Madhyastha (2 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Follow up

Detailed Answer:
Hello

Thanks for getting back

No medication is required at the moment. If you are unable to stop porn even after 4 weeks of trying you will have to take medications for obsessive compulsive disorder

Your penis size is genetically determined. There is no way you can increase it, please don't fall pray to this. You will simply wasting money. Your penis is big enough to satisfy your wife

Regards

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar