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Suggest Treatment For Anxiety, Depression And Stress

Posted on Sat, 10 Oct 2015

Question: Dr Bishnoi please. I feel so alone without XXXXXXX I'm so isolated and alone they have to lonely day I don't know how long I can stand to live like this please help me

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (59 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Wait for some time please

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Please try to have some patience. Give him some time and he will definitely come back. He is your son and is probably in anger because he doesn't want you to take overdose of pills. His anger is indirectly due to his care about you. Wait for some time and he will become alright.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)

Okay. I feel so sad both about XXXXXXX and XXXXXXX I am scared and feel so sad. Sams counselor wanted him to stay at his Dad's. He isnt angry anymore. But thinks he should be living by himself. XXXXXXX is very spiritually connected and I miss him so much especially since XXXXXXX

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (7 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Wait for some time

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

As I have requested earlier also, let some time pass. Wait for some time and XXXXXXX will become alright. Don't be stressed.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (7 hours later)

Okay but it is so hard to not havevhim living with me. Although I am glad to be in a XXXXXXX home I dont have teansportation.I have tried to give up on XXXXXXX but because we were so close and like me he loved God so much more than anyone other than XXXXXXX it is so hard to be isolated from both of them. I have will never get over XXXXXXX He broke my heart. But at least this lady is renting to me month to month. It is much better here except internet and cell phone service is bad.it is a pleasant place.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (6 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Please remain relaxed, wait for sometime

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

It's really hard to live in such difficult situations but you are doing good. XXXXXXX is a caring son and he will improve in some time. Don't remain distressed, he will become alright.

You have found a place to live so that is a good thing. This will divert your mood also, please try to think beyond XXXXXXX also. His illness has damaged your health and mind.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (27 minutes later)

I love XXXXXXX though I cant forget him. If the injunction isnt dismissed or even if it is I cannot see him unless he gets help. I dont think XXXXXXX is going to see him and I cant. Im afraid of him. I do hope XXXXXXX can live with me again but I don't have a car. So its pretty hopeless about XXXXXXX right? What if he never gets help? He still goes to his store but I dont know how he can even function. I feel sad about that. Maybe in time I will not be so sad

How can I ever get over the sorrow about Michael? I dont think it will ever be safe to be in contact him even if the injunction is dropped...I havent seen him since March and that was in court...he could just attack me right or call the police? The judge knows hes mentally ill but I dont think he is going to do anything...and if I am afraid of him it creates a terrible conflict...I dont know how to get over loving him and grieving for him...

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
Try to talk to XXXXXXX

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

If XXXXXXX doesn't get medical treatment and care then his recovery is difficult and in such case even if injunction is dropped even then there will be some difficulty. Though after that you can contact him but his behaviour would be unpredictable at that time and nothing can be said conclusively.

Either XXXXXXX or you can contact him and then let's see what happens. Try to talk to XXXXXXX he cares about you. If he comes back then things would be easier for you. Don't forget to take care of your health.

Yes judge knows he is ill but due to mental laws he can't do much. But let's see what happens.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (18 minutes later)

How can I feel less sad about XXXXXXX and Sam? It is hard not having transportation. XXXXXXX doesnt want to talk about XXXXXXX but XXXXXXX and I were so close until he thought something bad would happen to me. I miss XXXXXXX and him every day though having a good place to live helps a lot. The only person I see is XXXXXXX .and although I love her I miss reading the bible with XXXXXXX every night.Its been two years almost since XXXXXXX was coming over every day...and I am still si sad but I dont feel as traumatized. XXXXXXX and I are afraid he could call the police if we saw him again. In February u said to email him once every three or four weeks butvhe is blocking his personal emails from everyone now. It all feels so hopeless

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (34 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Please wait for sometime

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Please try to divert your attention and try to keep yourself busy. Read bible, go to church or do any constructive activity. It's never late, try to learn Hebrew again. These things will give you motivation and you will definitely find peace in mind. XXXXXXX was a good man but currently he is not in his sane mind and things for him are really difficult, he might become risk to you also. Try to maintain your calm, XXXXXXX will become better in some days. Till then spend your time with your friend.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (48 minutes later)

How can I forget him? It seems like I have to now. So he could hurt us you think? It is sad to think I will never be with him again. I only hope that XXXXXXX will be with me again. I am not ever going to be as I was with XXXXXXX So u think I should just forget him then? I am not really sure how to do that

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (7 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Try to forget him to regain your lost life

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Due to his illness and behaviour, you have suffered a lot. Your health deteriorated, you landed in legal problems, you lost money, still there are no signs of his recovery, so in such case best thing is to forget him. This is difficult but you have to do that. XXXXXXX will come back, no need to worry.

His intial delusion was that he might hurt you, though he didn't want that, but as he is a schizophrenic so anything could be assumed. So please try to remain relaxed and regain your health.

Thanks

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar