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Question: hello dr ,
im a virgin , last night my boyfriend entered quarter of his penis in me and i bleeded a little I'm still spotting , does that means that my hymen was broken , because if thats the case then I'm in big trouble since i come from a very very striked society , I'm very scared , will i be bleeding the next time i have sex ? or was that it ?? i am very worried please i need your help
im a virgin , last night my boyfriend entered quarter of his penis in me and i bleeded a little I'm still spotting , does that means that my hymen was broken , because if thats the case then I'm in big trouble since i come from a very very striked society , I'm very scared , will i be bleeding the next time i have sex ? or was that it ?? i am very worried please i need your help
Brief Answer:
yes hymen likely broken, hymen can be broken without sex also
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for writing to us.
I can understand your concern. First time attempt for intercourse and consequent bleeding suggest that your hymen was broken during the process. It is not possible to say without examination that your hymen was completely broken or not. In some females hymen is broken completely during first intercourse only while in some it may take up to 2-3 intercourse.
Next time you will bleed or not that is difficult to tell at this point.
The best thing is to consult gynecologist for the answer. With gentle examination and check-up doctor can inform that hymen is broken completely or not. If still hymen parts are still there possibility of bleeding is there.
In any case if there is no bleeding next time, keep following scientific points in mind for your defence to clarify that no bleeding during first intercourse does not means that someone is not virgin.
- In many females there is no bleeding even if there hymen is broken first time during intercourse. Due to past menstrual cycles hymen lumen gradually becomes enlarged in diameter so penis does not have any difficulty in entering vagina.
- Sometime during playing/jumping/dancing activities in childhood or adolescence hymen breaks itself without intercourse. In this case also hymen does not bleed while first intercourse.
You can search more about these aspects on internet and can prepare your answer if needed in future to defence your virginity.
Hope I have answered your query. Feel free to discuss further about doubts.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
yes hymen likely broken, hymen can be broken without sex also
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for writing to us.
I can understand your concern. First time attempt for intercourse and consequent bleeding suggest that your hymen was broken during the process. It is not possible to say without examination that your hymen was completely broken or not. In some females hymen is broken completely during first intercourse only while in some it may take up to 2-3 intercourse.
Next time you will bleed or not that is difficult to tell at this point.
The best thing is to consult gynecologist for the answer. With gentle examination and check-up doctor can inform that hymen is broken completely or not. If still hymen parts are still there possibility of bleeding is there.
In any case if there is no bleeding next time, keep following scientific points in mind for your defence to clarify that no bleeding during first intercourse does not means that someone is not virgin.
- In many females there is no bleeding even if there hymen is broken first time during intercourse. Due to past menstrual cycles hymen lumen gradually becomes enlarged in diameter so penis does not have any difficulty in entering vagina.
- Sometime during playing/jumping/dancing activities in childhood or adolescence hymen breaks itself without intercourse. In this case also hymen does not bleed while first intercourse.
You can search more about these aspects on internet and can prepare your answer if needed in future to defence your virginity.
Hope I have answered your query. Feel free to discuss further about doubts.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
What if I used this in my defence and say that a lot of girls dont bleed.. can a dr prove other wise? Can a doctor actually tell that I had intercourse before or not ?
Brief Answer:
No, only female herself can confirm about virginity
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up.
No, there is no test or procedure which can prove that girl had intercourse or not. Only girl can confirm that thing. In any case if girl becomes pregnant, later on it can be confirmed through examination and ultrasound which is indirect evidence of losing virginity.
No doctor can prove otherwise.
Note: When someone goes for sex regularly (say twice a month or more for more than 6 months , there are some physical , physiological and anatomical changes which are indirect medical evidences of sexual activity.
So it is better not to involve in sexual activity now onward considering your social situation.
Do not hesitate to ask further if you have any query.
Take care.
No, only female herself can confirm about virginity
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up.
No, there is no test or procedure which can prove that girl had intercourse or not. Only girl can confirm that thing. In any case if girl becomes pregnant, later on it can be confirmed through examination and ultrasound which is indirect evidence of losing virginity.
No doctor can prove otherwise.
Note: When someone goes for sex regularly (say twice a month or more for more than 6 months , there are some physical , physiological and anatomical changes which are indirect medical evidences of sexual activity.
So it is better not to involve in sexual activity now onward considering your social situation.
Do not hesitate to ask further if you have any query.
Take care.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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